This really has no thoughtful bearing on the philosophy of the game. Nor, will it help you to pull off that Uberskillchain with the sorry n00b (no offense to the rookie players) in your pt... But it will give you a little giggle...unless you are a super hardass (and there are NONE of those here).
Both my wife (Rahanna) and I play this game. Most of the time our our son is up front with her and our daughter is in the back with me. I really gave no thought to their "learning" anything from FFXI at all. (Well, my wife did teach our daughter the "taru happy dance"... sad, but very amusing) That is, until the other day.
I had just come home from work and was sitting on the couch, dragging off those heavy steel toe boots, when my daughter comes up to me with ALL of her toys stuffed into a bag and carrying a kaliedescope(sp?) and informs me in a strudy way that: "I'm going to jeuno daddy!" It took me a second to register exactly what she had said, but then I started giggling. I then proceed to pick her up and toss her on the couch and "beat her up". After a whack or two with her wand (the aforementioned kaliedescope) I let her go and pretended to be dead. She pokes me (just like when I die in game) and announces: "I only had 1 hit point left! Daddy..." She also announces quite frequently now that she is a Taru white mage. So, she has earned the name, Cassytaru.
So, anyway, I hope that my litte story has amused you as much as it amused me... ^^