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I would never join a guild where the leader just sits there and yells at people in raids, its just assenine and never works.
I was in such a guild. It wasn't like that at first, or didn't seem that way. Everyone told me "Oh, she doesn't mean anything by it" and such. Certain people just have totally dominating personalities, and they can make you think that being verbally abused is normal, you deserve it, it's not that bad, etc. She was ex-military, if you can imagine the raids being run as seriously as a drill squad, well, that's how she was. We were her soldiers. And she didn't do it every night. We had plenty of raids where she was in a pleasant mood, or not there, and it was always a relief.
But once my husband and I realized we weren't having fun at all, we just kinda silently stopped coming. And we're a lot better off for it now. We're guilded with mostly single college guys now, not like the couples guild that the other was, but the leader is a lot more laid back and there's less yelling and everyone treats it like a game. Plus they're better players. :\
Just wanted to put in that it's not always complete morons that end up in a guild like what I'm imagining. Often the true colors don't show for several weeks or months, and by then you're loathe to leave the people you do like.