Okay, I have to admit it: I am a grammar ****. But! You wouldn't know it when I play FFXI. I USED to bother with proper punctuation, spelling, etc.; however, I don't bother anymore because it's a waste of time and sometimes I feel like people understand me better when I use "FFXI-speak".
I'm actually a Communications major, but I have been reduced to certain shorthandisms (although not to the point of "plz g1ve me gillz! pl!" except in cases where I'm being ironic), because of what used to be time constraints (such as between sleeps in BCNM40) that eventually became habit.
I look at it this way: I'm writing to my audience. My audience in game is a group of people who write this way, and in many cases understand it better than "proper" grammar/spelling/punctuation. When I post in the boards, however, most other posters/readers are literate people, so I tend to actually use commas, periods and initial caps.
I, too, feel sorry for those who have been unexposed to proper grammar, etc. From my observations, however, it is through no fault of their own. Schools these days just don't teach grammar outside 'gifted,' 'advanced' or AP classes. I didn't have a single grammar class myself until college. My mother is an English major, so I got thwhacked any time I misused something, so I am lucky.
And please remember: it can ALWAYS be worse. I attend a science/engineering school. There is no worse a writer than an engineer. English111/112 were a walk in the park for me, but many (non-Communications majors) fail it. We make them fix our computers in exchange for proofreading their lab reports. It all works out in the end. ^_^
-Kilana's grammariffic player
Edited, Wed Oct 12 16:49:41 2005 by Inaya
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