My thoughts:
I am currently 51blm/25whm. I love /whm at these levels, because /rdm doesn't have much to offer to me for awhile.
Yes, blm is a primary DD, arguably the best in the game. However, this should not sway that you will need to pop off some beneficiary cures every now and then, and /whm will get you those cures faster.
Fighting anticans in Quicksand Caves, you realize how nice it is to have Cure III at hand when your pt gets whacked by a -ga spell. It prevents the whm of the group from being overstressed when watching 3 or 4 people slip into the yellow or red.
While it is true and people could argue that this is why whm has the Curaga line, the issue with that is that it draws massive amounts of hate if cast in battle, and the whm is almost sure to die as a result, which is very bad for the pt.
Having /whm will allow you to cure someone while the whm cures another, alleviating some of the strain.
At lv68, I fully intend to go /rdm as my main sub, because I will still have access to Cure III, along with Phalanx, Stoneskin, and Dispel. Until then, though, I am keeping /whm for quick access to valuable curative and enhancing magic that can benefit the pt I am in.
Kaetara
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Name: Kaetara Sagitta Race: Seeker of the Sun Miqo'te Nation: Limsa Lominsa
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