First, a Disclaimer: I'm not a 75DRG(yet), but I've spent quite a bit of time and energy learning the job, the gear, and the way it works. I'm sure some people might hate this post or get pissed, but I'm sharing my realization with the Allakhazam community, and hope people who ~don't~ already know this will read and learn.
In the time I've been playing, almost three years now, I've constantly heard this job insulted and ridiculed. Even though when I first started FFXI I wanted to be a Dragoon, I actually avoided the job simply because I had thought from what others said, that it sucked. It is pretty common knowledge how the majority feels about Dragoon, but I've realized a few things, that basically point out, the job does NOT suck.
Being as I'm not 75 yet, and don't even have the gear needed to do end game as DRG(not to mention I'd never be allowed to go DRG over my other jobs), I can not debate its use on Gods or HNMs. I hear it often said that SATA Wheeling Thrust can't compare to Gekko/Spinning Slash/Steel Cyclone, and until I can do it myself with good gear, I can't agree or disagree.
Things I CAN comment on though, is how DRG is treated in experience parties, and how it is thought of as a general DD in such situations. So why do so many people think its awful? Is it just word of mouth? If so, why did the people who started the rumor think DRG was awful?
How do people judge a DD in experience parties? Damage and hate. Most players, even veterans, still have this hard to break mind set that pulling hate = doing good damage. Yes, in some crude ways it is true, but it often neglects the thoughts of simple things like enmity, job abilities, small hate shifts from spike damage versus over time, etc. In that department, the fact that Dragoon has two job abilities that remove hate is probably often misleading to the masses. Most DD jobs see themself pulling hate as a sign of how good they are doing, an indicator light to extended epeen. With DRG, its seen as a time to use those lovely job abilities and shed that hate, so we don't have humongous epeen frozen stiff from rigor mortis.
That I think explains a lot majority of the negative thoughts people have towards DRG, but it doesn't quite explain them all. The part of this post that might hit some sensitive people is simply this... if you hear people insult DRG, or joke about it, or bash you because you're a DRG; take a look at yourself. Since I started actively leveling to 75, I've been checking every DRG I come across, and its pretty blatantly obvious why "DRG sux" is the stereotype. Most Dragoons DO suck. We aren't Monks, we can't use junk weapons and junk gear, and still expect to do good damage just because we eat some damned sushi. If you're tired of being ridiculed as a DRG or tired of the entire demeaning reputation DRG has, then work hard and change it. Plenty of people on these forums can point you in the right direction for what gear to get to be efficient, or tell you more about the job. With all of the FFXI sites out there, it isn't even too hard to learn for yourself, but you need to actually ~try~.
Sorry for the long post, but I didn't see anyone quite put what has been going through my head into words yet. If you're a Dragoon and you're in mostly AF or other gear that gives no beneficial stats to your job; please get better gear, pick a different job, or solo. The Dragoon reputation is bad enough without people seeing an awful DRG first hand.

