In your case, we wouldn't have booted you. We would tell you its our choice and you're not required to stay.
I do all the stack looting for my fiance who is a tank (tank/healer combo). As far as who should loot...I say the person who should loot is up to the tank since their the ones paying the most for repairs and I've seen them screwed over numerous times in groups (and then I've seen vice versa where they loot everything leaving nothing for anyone else).
Trust is a hard thing to come across in this game and you've gotta put your faith in the few you find not to ***** you over!
But if the tank doesn't have a preference I'm all for a melee looting, seems to just be a natural choice.
But for us...I loot stacks...less problems :)
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