Where to start.
Basically, what Teacake said, especially points 1 and 3 in her post.
Showing up at set times to do a set thing becomes like work after a while and the absolutely-very-last-thing I want to do with WoW is turn it into a job. Since I'm relatively new to the game (see below) I can still do the homework and mess up the first couple of times I see content which is no fun for anyone. I need to actually experience the thing, whatever it is, before a lot of the study stuff slides into place.
I'm on WoW a lot but after a couple of weeks of being on every night doing some intense leveling, I tend to want to take 3 or 4 nights off to catch up on TV or reading. I need that time and my resistance to being any more scheduled than I already am is clearly unworkable with progression raiding.
Plus one more thing: I started the game in late December of last year which, in retrospect, was unfortunate timing. My highest level character is 64 (I tried a lot of different things before settling on a main) and by the time I get to 80 then Cataclysm will soon be upon us. The main interest in raiding new content was precisely when I was leveling up to 40ish. I think I was in Stranglethorn Vale while the last ICC content was being unlocked.
Good raiding guilds with smart adult players likely won't have anything to do with me at this point (even after I get to 80)...they're done for the most part, less interested, or already have their team in place and not inclined to bring along anyone new...and I'm well aware that I'm not even ready to start.
Which is only to say that there are still some pretty high barriers to raiding for players that got into the game this year even if they've applied themselves to the game in a more disciplined way than I have. As well, I haven't found a casual guild that I'm comfortable with at this point. So I do randoms and try not to get screamed at when I mess up. So far (fingers crossed), this is rare since I like to play well and will work on the dummies (the training ones, not the human ones) for that.
The above really isn't QQ although it may sound like it. It's just expressing the reality of the situation and the fact that I haven't quite yet found my group niche. I do love the game and am having a good time. Largely due to the community here I've had questions answered and advice offered so I'm content.
Anyway, looking forward to Cataclysm which should shake things up a bit, level the playing field slightly and promises to bring along a more strategic play style for which I have a great deal of sympathy.


