ekaterinodar wrote:
But I did not. I took a key, that requires a full 10 man effort, to ensure the greatest majority of my raid would have access to Eye of Eternity.
Again, this was my raid. Which I created. Which my guild made the brunt of the effort. We showed up for every boss. We were there on time. We directed. We provided the vent. We made sure that all loot from start to finish was fairly distributed, including BoEs that net well over 1k on our realm, guild members politely passed on pieces that would have been great upgrades to ensure as many people as possible walked away with something, we distributed shards at the end of each run. You can't tell me that the pug which I directed and carefully selected the players for, was by no means mine to decide how the loot was distributed.
I've been very much on the fence on this subject since it was first posted, I can see the argument from both sides.
Frankly though, I've come down on the side of you're just being selfish and a little pigheaded. No not because you don't have the right to decide how loot is distributed; hell as far as I'm concerned if you want to start a group where only people with two vowels in their name who do precisely 1337 dps or multiples thereof can roll on loot then fine, so long as you explain it clearly to each member who joins your group and they agree to run on those terms - not on the forum, not in an ingame mail in the form of a contract written in legalese which must be signed in triplicate and sent back but in person when they join.
I might have come down on the other side of the fence but honestly this thread has prove just how bad a leader you actually are. You had the right to make the rules up, you've consistently ignored the fact that people weren't aware of those. This isn't about what you personally find common sense, hell I agree with you for the most part, it's about realising that just because you see something as common sense doesn't mean that everyone else will.
Your mistake and the reason I called you a bad leader is because you've refused to acknowledge your mistake in this. It was fair to you, a good leader would have ensured it seemed fair to everyone else before they went anywhere, negating any need for argument or dispute later. If nothing else you've surely learned that when you're in this situation again you're going to do it differently? I hope so.
I don't care if it's a whole pug, part guild or full guild (but for one pug place) if you expect people to respect your decisions you base them on rules that are known to everyone or people will walk away with very bad thoughts about you, and rightly so.