Take you friendly neighborhood Ret, make him seal SoC and attack you once (make sure it procs). Remove SoC and have him CS and DS you, chances are you will be alive and in relative good shape (depending on crits).
Instants now proc Seals, lucky seal procs will kill you. Ret is by far the most faceroll class, outside a demo lock or a insane disc priest (Read: Emphatic type Dpriest) it usually ins't even a fight.
Remove instants proccing seals, give us back mana regen (so we can still keep a good Undead DPS rotation), and I assure you - no more HoJ gibs. Oh, and stop nerfing SoL
that's how I beat other rets. Tweaks still must be made. Our DoT was both a buff and a nerf. It gave us a dot that didn't rely on changing seals.
The mana I need in PvP is Seals, cleanses, FoLs, CS, DS. Now, I should still run OOM from healing and cleansing, but our JotW doesnt even fit a CS/DS rotation. Bump the regen to 25 (It's actually 20, 5% base cost is Judgement) and with only a minute cooldown on DP, we would do fine, then just tweak our damage to normal levels.
Oh, and fix AW please, there are plenty of suggestion on how to fix it as well.

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