I run into this pretty often, because I mostly do stuff with PUGs (though that seems to be changing to more static groups/guildies lately).
Here, it's just me and my fiance`, so I just say, "I'm about to play." and he goes and watches TV or whatever he's gonna do for the nite. I guess I'm lucky.
But I'm with most of you guys: try to plan your game play. If you're going to commit to doing something with people, yeah, it's just a game, but those people are real people just like you are. That whole golden rule thing comes to mind.
But I also absolutely hate when someone comes into a group going "I've got an hour, let's hurry!" and tries to rush the group through it. Sure, I'll follow you around and pew pew w/ very low DPS, if you think that's going to be faster than letting me sit down and drink for a few seconds. Or, I might not. I might just say I don't have time for that crap, and bail. I usually try to stick it out, and, now that I think about it, I haven't ever bailed on a group, but I'm very close to being able to do just that if I end up with one of those rushers when I've not had the best of days. It puts me in the most rottenfoul mood!
Trill
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