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As far as nodes not taking any resources to harvest you have never tryed to harvest in a zone in which the mobs are even close to your lvl and agro have you.. I can remember battles with orc's to get to a wind swept rock that took most of my hp and mana to allow me to get close enough to harvest the rock.
This is a different situation. Here, there has been personal risk. You have, in effect, 'paid' for that rock.
Thing is in tier 2 there are enough resources to go around. I would more than likely find my own node and leave you to yours as well in tier 2/3. I have been referring mainly to teir 1 where everyone needs those rat nests to get their trapping skill up with the rest of their skills. You typically have 3 or more people running around in circles in the same 4 or 5 little spots trying to be the first one to grab that next rat's nest that spawns. If you see someone trapping and you don't run up and trap one also you can forget about ever making it out into tier 2. You can also bet that if I find the nest first everyone else out there that sees me will come running up to click on it. That's ok, I don't own the nest and they need it as badly as I do. I will probably get 2 of the 3 attempts because I got there first, but even if I walk away empty handed it's still just good natured competition.
No one is rude that I have encountered, they are simply trying to survive.
If I find myself in a situation such as the one you described things are a bit different situationally. I have been in the middle of a fight to get to a node when someone came running up and started harvesting it (roots which I badly needed at the time). I sent them a quick tell explaining that I was fighting this group just so I could get to the roots, please save them for me... assuming I live. They stopped immediately, and I think most people would. I thanked them and let them know that if I died in the battle they were welcome to the roots.
The vast majority of players are not 'rude a$$es' they are simply doing the best they know how to do. Please don't pass judgement on them until they have actually proven themselves to be jerks.
As you can see from the vast amount of disagreement in this thread, many people simply do not share the same view as you do regarding what is courtesy and what is being rude.
Whether you are on the "I'm not rude, you are greedy" side or the "I'm not greedy, you are just rude" side the world of Norrath will be a much better place if we all try to understand the other person's point of view.
Grist Gudhart
Oasis server