Pick one that doesn't have on-board video on it. Having an on-board video chip will siphon memory from your main memory. Find one that has a dedicated video chip on it, so it has separate VRAM. Check out the description for both laptops and check to see if it says "dedicated video" on it. As far as main memory goes, EQ1 isn't intensive until you get to more current content.
Edit to add: This is my current laptop:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005UUS6MO/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1 It has its own dedicated video card and runs great. Quad core (8 core threading), 16 gigs of RAM, 3 gigs of video ram.
Edited, Jul 20th 2016 4:12pm by missjackie
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