It's easy to generalize about 90's... easy to generalize about people at the level cap anywhere, any game. Just remember that people get distracted, have priorities, are afk, or are in a bad mood. Anywhere you look you will find friendly people ready to help and angry people who won't.
EQ has one of the most friendly helpful player bases I know so my suggestion is to just assume you ran into someone having a bad day.
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